Amanda tried to dismiss my concerns.

“You’re making this much bigger than it is,” she said. “The children would rather stay with you anyway.”

“It is not a small thing to use me as free childcare without even asking.”

“We always include you in family plans.”

“The only time you include me is when you need something.”

Her mouth opened, but I continued.

“When was the last time you visited because you wanted to spend time with me? When did you last ask how I was feeling? When did any of you remember my birthday without being reminded?”

She had no answer.

Instead, she asked the question that revealed what mattered most to her.

“What are we supposed to do with eight children?”

“They are your children and Robert’s children,” I replied. “That is for you to solve.”

Amanda pulled out her phone.

“I’m calling Robert. He will talk some sense into you.”

“My decision will not chang