cnu In the third month of marriage, my mother-in-law sat at my own kitchen table and said my apartment was “family property,” then told me I owed her $1,000 a month in rent—but when I calmly said I would just go back to my apartment

his full attention that felt early on like being held.

He was funny. He remembered small things I mentioned.

On our third date, he brought up a book I’d said I liked in passing, and he’d read fifty pages of it.

I thought that was love.

I think now it was strategy, but I am not certain he was even conscious enough of himself to call it deliberate.

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