I paid for my parents to fly out and see me for the first time in four years. They stayed at my sister’s house 30 minutes away. I set the table every night for a week. They never came. On their last day, Mom texted: “Maybe next time, sweetie!” I was the bank. Not the daughter. So I shut it down.
My mother brought flowers. My father brought a lemon pie and admitted, for the first time, that the bakery wasn’t quite as good as mine. We sat. We ate. We spoke about the future instead of the bills.