at me, was always the orchestrator. She’d plan, she’d gather, she’d host. And I? I was the ghost in the machine, the phantom limb of the family unit.
“Why wasn’t I invited?” I’d ask my husband, my voice small, trembling with a hurt I tried desperately to hide. He’d shrug, a familiar, infuriating gesture. “Oh, I guess Mom just forgot to tell you directly.continue reading …