True story. At the trust meeting, my daughter said: “She has no say.” I reached into my bag and…

irrevocable, and I was the trustee.

It was filed with the county recorder’s office. It named three charitable organizations as remainder beneficiaries after any estate expenses because Gerald said, “I’ve had everything I needed. Somebody else should have a turn.”

That was the last clear-eyed conversation we had about it.

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