True story. At the trust meeting, my daughter said: “She has no say.” I reached into my bag and…

were settled, the remaining amount was meaningful, not enormous by any standard that makes the news, but real, the kind of real that represents a careful life lived without waste.

I had also separately been to see Mr. Foss about my own affairs.

I had a will, but Raymond and I had made it in 2004, and things were different now.

I sat with Mr. Foss for continue reading …