Two months after the divorce, I was sh0cked to see my ex-wife wandering aimlessly in the hospital. When I learned the truth, I completely collapsed.

treatment, and people who knew the truth. She no longer had to pretend herself into isolation.

I changed too.

I ask better questions now.

When someone’s behavior shifts, I try to wonder what might be happening beneath the surface before deciding what it means. I listen differently. I pay attention to silence instead of assuming I understand it.

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