True story. At the trust meeting, my daughter said: “She has no say.” I reached into my bag and…

doing everything for everyone and not once asking anyone for anything, and had said as plainly as a person can say a thing, “Ruth, that’s not generosity. That’s just giving people reasons to take.”

I had been annoyed at the time.

She had been right.

She asked me carefully what I was going to do about my daughter.

I thought about it.

The honest answer was continue reading …